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बाळंतपण

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नऊ मासाच्या प्रतिक्षेनंतर पाहिलं त्याचं मुख आई म्हणून अनुभवलं मी ते जगावेगळ सुख ते रडलं आणि मी हसले असा होता तो क्षण आई म्हणाली, पूर्ण झाला बाळंतपणाचा पण वाटलं राजा राणीचा पूर्ण झाला आता संसार काव्यात वगैरे बोलायचे तर त्याला आली बहार पण दोनच दिवसात मांडलेलं सगळं गणित फसतं कळून चुकत आई होणं इतकं सोपं नसत कित्ती दिले तरी अपुरेच पडतात त्याला चौवीस तास सेंट आणि deo कुठले, नुसता शी आणि शु चा वास हक्काचं माहेरपण आईबाबांनी ठेवलेली बडदास्त सगळ्यांना हे बाळ गोड पण मला मात्र देत त्रास कधी लागते उचकी तर कधी धरत श्वास' कधी बिनसतं पोट तर कधी होतो gas जेवण केलय आज आईने आवडीचे खास पण सूर ह्याने काढला कि माझा अडकतोय घास त्यातच इकडून तिकडून सूचनांचा पाऊस हे करून बघ त्याला आणि हे नको खाऊस डोक बांधून घे जरा कित्ती आहे पाऊस दिवे लागणी झाली आता बाहेर नको जाऊस कुणी म्हणे लागली असेल त्याला दृष्ट काढून टाक एकदाची इडा पिडा होऊ देत नष्ट सांभाळ बाई त्याला खूप आहेत infection देऊन आणलंस का ग त्याला वेळेत injection बाटली नको तिला च...

Goodness of Savskruth (Sanskrit)

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        Recently I started teaching English to my daughter and realized that it is so much difficult for kids to learn English. I am sure you might have faced this if you are an Indian and have made an attempt. First, most of the Indian languages are purely phonetic. What this means is, a particular letter sounds same everywhere or no two letters sound the same. For example, letter ‘ k ’ or ‘Ka’ is Ka has unique sound and no other letter sounds like Ka. Similarly, no two words sound the same like English. For example ‘here’ and ‘hear’. English also has two or more sounds for same letter. For example in ‘cat’ c is pronounced as ‘K’ but in ‘cute’ is pronounced as ‘Ky’  and cinema it is pronounced as ‘S’. There is more confusion in English due to silent letters. Some of the letters as ‘R’ is silent in some places and vocal in some other places. This is true with ‘U’ and many other letters.         As there are no rules fo...

NLP: How can you communicate with your kids in public?

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            Before becoming a father, I had seen people widening their eyes if their kid behaves in a particular way. If that does not work, they go near the kid and whisper in their ears and if even that doesn’t work they would raise or lower the voice. I used to put myself in their place and realize that it is pretty awkward situation. Well, when I became a father; I realized that I am in the same boat and I wanted an efficient way to communicate with my daughter in public.             Being a student of NLP I thought of applying NLP and life. As NLP works well with the unconscious, I thought it might be very effective with kids and yes, my guess was appropriate. I came up with various sound anchors for my daughter. I started with one and reached up to 10. All these sound are from the rhymes that my daughter listens. She loves all of them. I have practiced them with her at home multipl...